Dealing With Heartbreak
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Life would not be the same without falling in love. Everybody gets smitten by the love bug from time to time. Nothing beats that extraordinary feeling you get when you are falling for a new love interest. You find yourself riding on a wave of excitement while you anticipate the next ‘phone call or the next flirty text message. All your thoughts and ideas, all your plans are centred on that one person. Before long, you realise you are pinning all your hopes on a future with that one special person. Then something in the dynamic between you changes. What on earth can you do when your dreams are cruelly snatched away from you?
The ending of a relationship is usually more painful for one partner, the one who is dumped. It is hard to believe it is happening when you feel certain you have not done a thing wrong. Knowing that your partner no longer wants you is one of the most painful things you have to face. Everybody knows that a relationship can end just as suddenly as it began. The chance of getting hurt is a risk you take each time you fall in love. Just how do you get back on your feet again after suffering heartbreak? There are ways.
The Five Steps To Recovery
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Step Number One
Accept That The Relationship Is Over
It is hard to face the painful fact that the one you love will not be returning to you. There will always be at least one friend or somebody else you know who thinks they are helping by giving you false hope. It is likely they have no idea how cruel they are being without meaning to be. This is the most difficult obstacle on your road back to happiness. You must remind yourself daily to resist the temptation to send just one last text, especially if it could be viewed as needy or recriminatory.
Step Number Two
Do Not Blame Yourself
Easier said than done, especially if your lover openly criticised you in some way before or during the break-up. Remember it is not unusual for the person who is merrily moving on to a new love to make a few harsh or callous comments to you. It is sometimes deliberate and sometimes not. Either way, you must stop over thinking.
Step Number Three
Allow Time To Grieve
Take break to get to know your needs. Every relationship changes people in subtle ways.
Step Number Four
Find A Confidante
Find somebody unconnected with you or your lost love. This is where our cheap love life readings come in. When you are dealing with heartbreak, it is great to get a reading and learn a little of what is going on around you in the spirit world on the same time and even get a look into your future.
Step Number Five
Move Into That Future
You will know when you are ready to move on and a reading can help to point you in the right direction.